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Dhumal – Memories



Dhumal – Memories

The last page daddy wrote before dying, was that he wanted us to keep his memor­ies in his diary intact and not get them published. A lot of people had approached us for our recollections about him but seven years after his death we have consented to this article because we feel that we owe him a tribute. This is the first time we have ever spoken on him.

He was born on 29th March, 1914. Our grandfather was a lawyer but he died when dad was just 10. So the whole responsibility of his family, fell on him. At that time, the tradition was that if a Brahmin came to anyone’s door, they were never sent back emp­ty-handed. Thai’s how he kept the home fires burning. Later on, he joined a drama company, where he served drinks and washed utensils. And sometimes when small artistes failed to turn up, the spot boys would fill in for them. That’s how he landed up with bit roles in plays.

During this period, he met Mr. P.K.Atre and Nanasaheb Phatak, both big names in the drama world. They were later to become close friends of his, for years to come. Soon, he started getting recognized and bigger roles came his way. Although he even­tually became famous as a comedian in films, he was more well known as a villain. He played major roles in famous plays like, ‘Lagna Chi Bedi’, ‘Ghara Baher’. His performance as an old man was so convincing, that people told him he would never get anyone to marry him if he kept it up! He was barely 25 years old then!

From stage, he shifted his focus to the silver screen. He worked in big movies like Woh Kaun Thi, Ankhen, Gumnaam, Arzoo, Sasural etc. In fact, we don’t even know most of his movies because he never took us to see them. It is only after his death that we saw his movies. But I remember someone telling us, that the first movie he did was a Marathi one, called Pedgaonche Shahane in which he played the role of a South Indian. After that, he got many offers to play similar roles. He did all of them but was not very happy doing the same thing over and over again.

One thing he was very particular about, was education. After he got married to my mother, he made sure she completed her education. I guess it was his ambition that since he never got an opportunity to learn (because he was too busy making ends meet), and did not want anyone to go through the same situation. He gave us (my brother and two sisters) the best opportunities to equip ourselves with the best of education. If any of us secured less marks, we would be beaten with a clothes hanger or locked in the bathroom. He even made sure our pocket money was spent on books instead of sweets or movies. He dis­couraged us from indulging in frivolities like spending on clothes or restaurant-hopping. Daddy not only spent on our education, but helped many others who were not able to afford the same. All one had to tell him, was that they didn’t have money to study, and even if we didn’t have the means he would give the per­son the money. A few years ago, we were invited to a Kavi Sammelan in Sirur, near Pune, on that occasion Professor Suryakant Vaidya, who is an author and a Principal, dedicated two of his books of poems to daddy.

He never installed a telephone at home. Since we lived in Chembur, which was considered very far away from Bombay at that time, it was very difficult for producers to contact him. If they wanted to sign him for their movies, they would have to come all the way home. The reason he gave for not having a telephone, was that unless producers had a good role for him, they would not bother to come all the way there. He didn’t go around asking for roles either. He was too proud to do a thing like that. But somehow, most of his produc­ers would repeat him in every movie of theirs. He was a regular in all Raj Khosla, Shakti Samanta, Pramod Chakravorty and Bappi Sonie films. And from the Marathi moviedom for directors like the late Kamlakar Torne and late Vasant Jogle­kar — he remained of his favorite to the end. In fact Shobha Khote, Mehmood and my dad were the popular trio in those days. Recently in an interview, actor Mehmood spoke fondly ab­out those days they worked together.

No chore was too small for him. Even when he was doing very well in films, on a holiday, he would wear his short pants and a white shirt and go marketing, or clean the house of its cobwebs. Although he was very busy, he made sure he never neg­lected the home. When the time came for our marriages, it was he who, like a typical father, went to all the marriage bureaus in Bombay looking for suitable match for us and that too with lot of patience. He never lost his temper with us. He was truly our friend, philosopher and guide. We were scared of our mother but with him, we could discuss anything.

A very very pious man, for almost 17 or 18 years, he made sure he fasted every Monday. It so happened, that he would invariably be shooting on Mondays. But that did not deter him. He would wake up around four in the morning to perform pooja. He was always punctual on the sets. He had been a diabetic for 40 years, and before going to shooting, he gave himself an insulin injection without anybody’s help.

He never wanted to be dependent on anyone. He developed a cataract in one eye and lost his sight of that eye. So whenever he left house, one of us would volunteer to go along with him but he would sternly refuse, saying that if we wanted to go, we could do so on our own. The only time he left house, was to do the marketing or to go for shootings. He never attended film parties. Even when we did go to a wedding, he would walk in, wish the couple and leave immediately. We used to plead with him to wait, so that we could eat the delicious sweets, but he would reply with a nice pinch!

Generally, nothing made him tense. He was the most happy-go-lucky man we ever saw. The only time we saw him tense was when he had to get us married and did not have enough money to do this on a grand scale. But still, he never took a loan from anyone and we all had quiet weddings. The little money he made from films, he invested in a house in Lonavala, which is being looked after by my elder brother-in-law and sister. W w.nt there very often with daddy. That was the place we had family get-togethers. Another time he was tense was when my newly born daughter had some complications and had to go through multiple surgeries. Although he had a heart problem, he would make sure he came to visit her every day. The day she got better, we brought her to the temple close to our house, before taking her home. Soon after she got better, he expired due to a massive heart attack.

The last person he met, was Shashi Joshi, his friend who owned a hotel in Kolhapur. Whenever daddy went there, he would stay at his hotel, although it was not a very posh one. Mr. Joshi’s wife cooked special food for dad, because of his diabetic condition. He spoke with Mr. Joshi for a long while, who then left. A few hours later he was admitted to hospit­al where he breathed his last — February 13, 1987. He died the way he wanted to, without being dependent on anyone till the last mo­ment – (As told to Vijay Shekhar in 1994).


A poem written by his daughter on his birthday,
during the time when her daughter was critically
ill in the hospital.


“Hear Me Dad”

The path is dark,

Lend me your hand dear Father,

The path is misleading,

And I trust none other.

Life is never bare,

When you have someone who cares,

To come across someone like you, is therefore rare,

For nothing then is a nightmare.

Your principles are not wasted,

Within us, they are deeply pasted,

Your principles are our guidelines,

Which brings out in us, only that what is fine,

And ultimately, it surely makes us shine.

Things would no more be the same,

When you don’t shine,

For what then can “WE” call as “MINE”,

Mine to see and mine to love,

Never to be free, from this “BOND” full of love.

It is what all of us feel

For this brand of love, never carries a seal

To feel this feel of love

One has to be lucky

And with a father like ours

We never touch upon the word “UNLUCKY”.

Mrs. Hema Dhananjay Phatak

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  1. Admn.,

    The name of the first film of Dhumal was PEDGAONCHE SHAHANE and NOT Redgaonche Shahane.I am sure it is a typo,but kindly correct it.
    Incidentally,Pedgaonche Shaane-1952 became a hit film and was remade in Hindi as CHACHA CHAUDHARI in 1953,in which Dhumal did the same ‘Madrasi music Teacher’s role.


  2. Very touchy and Informative Article about Actor Dhumal.We respect him.
    We would like to know wherabout of yester year actreses Sheila Ramani and Shakila.

  3. I am a Chemburite from birth, and had seen actor Dhumal often, his small son Pramod was one year junior to me in school, i knew actor Dhumal was no more in this world but i really did not know when he passed away.
    I just want to know whether all his children including Pramod is married and well settled as i have been seeing them always in my childhood days.
    May Mr. Dhumal have eternal rest as GOD showers HIS abundant blessings on all his children and grandchildren, Do you all still have your home in SHELTER building.
    My love and best regards to all of Mr. Dhumal’s family members.

  4. thanks for the article,i live in new-zealand,iam coming to india in nov2013,can you give me your contact details?thanks

  5. he was a very simple person. he had a white ambassador car, with a driver, we were small kids, we stayed in the same building i n chembur for about 7 years. Very quite, and shy, i think he did not go to see movies, and once i saw loads of diwali greeting cards from all producers under his door, as he was not in town. A lovely person.

  6. Today is the birth day of Shankar(Jaikishan). And on the ocassion ,the TV chanells are showing the songs of them. In one song Of Gumnam,I saw HARFAN MAULA Dhumal in the song…..And as usual.I made curious,to know more about him.All I read what is given in this window,including his daughters say.
    But,not get his Full name and the birth place or from where he was.
    Everyone is thirsty for the same,
    Pl.let me know like others. Thanks

  7. Sometimes, Funny memories are refreshing my minds, when my thoughts go back to era 1960s onwards due to superb natural acting of great Comedian ICON Dhumal ji of Indian Film Industry. His movies are always affectionated by million of fans within and across the country. IS Jehar, Mehmood and Johnny Walker were also legends comedian during that era. They were really role models for present comedians.

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